Greeting lovelies!
Ok, so my girlfriend sent me an email with a message in the S2S magezine, from a "Disgusted White Girl". Immediately, it caught my eye! You all may be familiar with the post; the "girl" was asking (as if she thought some REAL BLACK man was going to applaud her for being white and wanted among the black male community), what is it that makes black men want white women. Reading her question, along with the answers she gave herself, and to US Ebony Goddesses, that kind of flickered something - resentment- in my blood stream LOL! i have no problem with any nationality, creed or anything like that, i consider myself to be Universal! BUT, I am sooooo happy that "Black Royalty" stepped up to the plate and hit a HOME RUN!!! OUT OF THE PARK!!! I have been trying, for so long to tell people what our dear Mr. Royalty wrote!
IDK who this young man is, all i know is that I fell IN LOVE with him! my goodness, i just want to give him a hug!! LOL! I am printing that response out and posting it on my wall at work! IF YOU, MR. ROYALTY ARE READING THIS... Here's to you my dear!! thank you for making that stand! thank you for understanding Black women! thank you for the support you show! thank you for knowing OUR cultire and history! thank you for being BLACK ROYALTY! God bless you, much love and 3 kisses! (((SMILE)))
signed, ~Virtue~
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If a task is once begun, never leave it till it's done; be the labor great or small, do it well or not at all.
I would like to first start off by asking you is this the first black man you dated? Now, I noticed that you talk about the looks you constantly get from us black women, I was wondering why you forgot to mention the looks you get from your white sisters. Let me ask, how many arguments have you had with members of your own family about your dating this black man. I truly believe your issue is not with us black women, but with yourself. The next time you want to write a letter demeaning us black women, you really need to do your research. The same way you say all these black successful men want to wine and dine you white women....Let me tell you, I am a successful black women, working for a fortune 500 company, and there are many, many, many, white men, whom not to mention are married to a white woman and constantly ask to take me out, wine and dine me and just want a taste of chocolate. It's funny you call yourself disgusted, more like disgusting. Most of the black men who go out with white women, are going out with them cause they cant handle a strong black women. I have lots of friends and family who date white women. Do you know why they are dating these white women, not because we are fat or loud or obnoxious. Because we have pride in ourselves and we were raised different. We will not allow our men to run over us, they cant come in when they want from cheating, tell us some cheap lie about a flat tire or working late and we pat them on the back and say "OH, honey im so sorry. Let me give you a massage and make you feel better." No thank you white girl, we'll leave that to you. WE know our worth, we know our strengths and we stand for what we believe in . Maybe we are not frowning at the fact that you are with a black man, but maybe they are wondering why you wanted something we threw in the trash. By the way, since your so high and mighty and think we dont know how to treat our men, did you stop to think about the history of the whole white/black era. It was the white men, who while we were enslaved that was sneaking out the house to the slave shacks to sleep with the black women. Yes, I know you probably thought it was because they were hurting us, but truth be told this was because they werent getting satisfied by the white women they had in the house. It was the black women then that was cooking your meals, raising your kids, growing your crops and everything else. By the way did you stop to think that it was a BLACK WOMAN that raised your black man. I wonder what she would say about your letter. I wonder how he would feel about you once his mother spoke on how she felt. So dont get all caught up on in your feelings honey and think you are on some high horse. Cause I will be that strong black woman to know you down. I am not a racist, but I cant stand certain kinds of stupid crap. You are very ignorant and know nothing about black woman, and while we are on the subject, have you thought about the fact that if you plan to be with this black man, you are running the risk of creating a black woman your self, cause honey let me tell you, if you have an ounce of black in you, your considered Black. So before you go talking down on us black women, thinking you have a prize, you might want to realize that you being with a black man, to your white peers, they are stereotyping you the same way you are us. To them you are one of us black women. Maybe that is the true issue. Do you want to be black? Now, you did your research and named all the black successful men who are married/dating white women. Do me a favor, do your research and respond back with all the WHITE famous/successful men who are married to black women. Matter of fact, do me one better and name all of the BLACK SUCCESSFUL men married to BLACK women. Grow up and dont hate me cause you aint me.
Dear Disgusted White Girl,
How dare you? How dare you talk about black women they way you did? How dare you speak of WOMEN the way you did? What gives you the right to feel superior? Do you not realize that you disrespected the women in your man's life? The man you claim to love. Do you have any black friends? Do you know the history as to Why Black women are percieved the way they are. Aggressive, bossy, big and loud? Trust me :disgusted white girl," I am disgusted by you. You are the type of women who makes black women aggressive and you are the kind of woman who make white women snobbish and ignorant. You are the type of women who demean women in general. As a girl with a mixed family, I was thought to be proud of my heritage. It's a pity that you insulted your man and the women who shaped him. I wonder why you were even attracted by him? If you have such contempt for black women; you may not associate with black men either. Change your attitude and your outlook and maybe they will stop seeing you as a dumb girl.
As for you Black Royalty, get down for your high horses and your throne. I was as disgusted by your comments as I was by "disgusted white girl" While I understand your outrage. I am stunned that you would treat these white women as easy. The black men who date white women for dominance are cowards. And you seem to condone their behavior. You are no better than this girl. You just demean all women. For your information, my mother is white and she is the strongest woman I have ever met. She went to church like the black women and was raised stricly. My father who is black did not get her because she was easy. By the way our new president had a white mother... What do you say of her. '
I write this letter for all women. Enough with this crazy rivalry between sisters of color and white women alike. Women have been oppressed for ages. Respect yourselves, Learn to value yourselves . As for yourblack royalty as much as you have praised black women, you demean another. We are all women. We have all our difference and hang ups because of history and background. For those in interracial relationship, I hope your don't define your relation based on color but based on love and attraction. Such a shame!
The comment from the brother was great. I'd also like to add that this white woman has obvisiously come to her conclusions based on what a black man (men) has told her and a certain type of black man at that. If the black man that you are dating went for you for the reasons you state in your letter. I'd be a little leary, Many black men blame black women as though he has no responsibility for how the relationship turned out suggesting that if he just dated outside of his race, that would solve the problem. The only reason black women have a problem with the black men dating white women is the black man's rationale for doing so. We don't care who you date if it's for the right reasons not because there is something's wrong with us. You state that you are engaged to this brother, I'd like to hear what you have to say a couple of years from now. I also know a lot of white girls who are sorely dissillusioned with black men after dating them as well. In the end, it's the kind of person you are, not your race that matters.
Black royalty... Where is that young intelligent man. When I read his response...It what like ..."Better than a climax" I hope if she wanted the truth to set her free' " She is now free as a bird. Probably flying around all confused. I don't mean to be mean...But I hope her loving and comforting black man is with her....When "Black Royalty" Broke her face and was ther to pick up the pieces. He couldn't have said it in a more intellgent and thoughful way. I hope she appreciate his candidness.
loveu Black royalty
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BLACK ROYALTY MAKES CLAIMS ABOUT WHY IN GENERAL BLACK WOMEN ARE CONSIDERED TO BE STRONG N ALL, SAYIN THAT IT HAS TO DO WITH THA SLAVE DAYZ AND EGYPTIAN WOMEN RULING...WELL EGYPTIANS WERE NOT BLACK. AFRICA IS A CONTINENT....JUST BECAUSE YOUR AFRICAN DOESNT MEAN YOUR BLACK AND JUST BECAUSE YOUR BLACK DOESNT MEAN YOUR AFRICAN, AND JUST BECAUSE YOUR EUROPEAN DOESNT MEAN YOUR WHITE.....I JUST WANTED TO MAKE THAT CLEAR FOR SOME BECAUSE ITS VERY ANNOYING SOME BLACK PEOPLE WANT TO CLAIM EVERYTHING JUST LIKE SOME WHITES....IM GOING TO SCHOOL MYSELF MORE ON THIS THO. ANYWAYS IM NOT SAYING I DISAGREE WITH BLACK ROYALTY. BUT I AM SO SICK OF THA STEREO TYPICAL WHITE GURL BEING CONSIDERED THIS DUMB BITCH THAT WANTS TO BE CONTROLLED AND IS A SLUT AND EZ...BECAUSE I KNOW ALOT OF BLACK GURLS THAT FIT THAT CRITIA AS WELL....I AM NOT STICKING UP FOR ANY RACE, AT ALL. IT DOES ANNOY ME WHEN WHITE WOMEN SAY THINGS LIKE WERE TAKING ALL YOUR MEN BECAUSE THAT IS SO NOT TRUE, AND IS MAKING US LOOK DUMBER LOL...WHERE I LIVE ITS MOSTLY BLACK THEN MEXICAN FEW WHITE PEOPLE AND YOU DONT SEE THAT MUCH INTERACIAL DATING AS YOU WOULD THINK. MOST BLACK MEN I KNOW DATE BLACK WOMEN OR MEXICAN BUT MOSTLY BLACK OCCASIONALLY U SEE EM WITH WHITE WOMEN....AND THA WHITE GURLS I SEE ARENT AT ALL WHAT BLK ROYALTY SAYS. ITS ALSO ANNOYING TO ME WHEN WHITE WOMEN ARE ALWAYS SINGLED OUT AS THA ONES WHO GET ALL THA SURGERY DONE AND ALL THAT CUZ I KNOW ALOT OF BLK WOMEN WHO GET BUTT INJECTIONS TOO MAKE THIER ASSES EVEN BIGGER....I KNO WHITE GURLS WHO DO TO. I ALSO KNOW SOME BLACK GURLS THAT ARE JUST AS SLUTTY AND EZ AS THESE DUMB WHITE BITCHEZ SO WHY IS THA 'BLACK WOMEM' CONSIDERED EVERYTHING GOOD, BUT THA 'WHITE GURL' IS MADE OUT TO BE SUPERFICAIL SLUTTY EASY AND BASICALLY A DUMB BITCH. I AM NONE OF THESE THINGS AND MY CLOSEST FRIENDS ARENT EITHER, OK WELL ONE IZ KINDA LOL. I AM NOT ON HERE TALKIN BS EITHER. AND AM NOT ON HERE JUST TO STICK UP FOR THA WHITE GURL CUZ I REALLY AM NOT...IM JUST SICK OF BEIN ON THA TEAM THATS GETS MADE AN ASS OUT OF. AND I KNOW THERE ARE ALOT OF DUMB WHITE BITCHEZ THAT MAKE SOME THINK SO NEGATIVE ABOUT US IN GENERAL....BUT THERES ALOTTA DUMB BLK WOMEN TOO SO THATS MY POINT. O AND MY MAN DOESNT CONTROLL ME EITHER NOR TAKE ADVANTAGE. IN CONCLUSION THIS SHIT MAKES SOME LOOK AT ME AND AUTOMATICALLY THINK IMA SLUT, EASY TO CONTROL AND BLA BLA, IVE HEARD IT SO MANY TIMES EVEN TO MY FACE. ONE I WAS AT A CLUB MOSTLY BLACK BUT DIVERSE W/E AND I WAS STANDIN BY THA BAR GETTIN A DRINK (ONLY WHITE GIRL BY THA BAR)....THESE 2 BLK GUYS WERE LOOKIN AT ME TALKIN AND THEN ONE OF POINTED TO ME N SAID, "I WANT THAT ONE, I KNOW SHE A FREAK". THEY SAID SOME OTHER NASTY SHIT TOO BUT ANYWAYS THEY ONLY DID IT CUS I AM WHITE...NEWAYZ IM WRITTIN TOO MUCH....