Tue, 2009-08-04 07:34
I'm 23 and I'm a federally employed young lady - Department of the Navy. I work with men, I shop in the mall and see men, I know God created men (((SMILE))), but why don't I have one?! I mean, I've been told that I am pretty, I've been told that I have a wonderful personality, but I mean my goooooodness... Why is it soooo difficult to find a man that is not afraid to approach me? I approach men and when I need to be, I am forward, but I was expecting to be close to marriage... But I am AFAR OFF! Is there help for ladies like me? I'm a virgin and it seems that this word makes men back up. What's wrong with honoring the Lord with my body? What's wrong with abstaining from sex? I mean, I don't plan on being a virgin forever, I would like to get married and share my gift with someone special but by the looks of it, I'll die a virgin! I've heard people (ladies) say that whoever I date will want me to go get some experience and already know what to do and how to bring pleasure... But my philosophy is this: If I only know (biblical sense lol) ONE man, he can teach me how to satisfy him, he can teach me how to pleasure him; He'll never have to worry about what I think about him being better or worse than anyone I've had.. He'll be the only one! He'll be the biggest. He'll be the best. He'll have the longest stamina. He'll be the only one!!! He'll never have to worry about the competition.. And my Lord, he'll never have to worry about STDs with lil ole me! Why wouldn't a man want this treatment?! Why wouldn't a man want to be with a virgin?! Is there a way that we can ANNOUNCE VIRGINITY is not freaky? I'm not ashamed of my gift... I'm just ready to share it with my King - whoever he may be.
Thu, 2009-08-13 17:09
#1
Dear Miss Virginity
You are not just pretty, you are beautiful for being true to who GOD made you. Every man wants a woman who they can call their own. However, the average young man your age has not been taught how to appreciate a young woman like you. You may have to look to real men (not man sized boys) that are 7-10 years older to make your selection. Your selling point to a real man is the fact that you have been faithful to GOD and yourself so he will have no problem believing that you will be faithful to him as well. I want to caution you to not be in a hurry. Whenever we make hurried choices they usually end in trouble. I have seen beautiful young women like you end up with a horribly abusive man because he was kind, loving, attentive and sweet initially. Time and talk reveals all hidden secrets. Know what you want in the character and qualities of a man and don’t compromise. When you see red flags do not ignore them. Above all, always trust your own instincts. Your own gut is the best barometer for detecting a guy who is full of bull. Remember a zero will always show up before the one. Your body is getting excited because your spirit recognizes that it won’t be long until your boo appears before you. So, be sober and be vigilant because the devil wants to capture you. Therefore, he will always send you a zero who knows how to pretend to be the one. Thus, you must learn how to identify the one by his qualities and characteristics so that you can reject the zero.
Mon, 2009-08-17 09:33
#2
WOW!! thank you sooo much
WOW!! thank you sooo much for your kind words! how about that! I like the "Zero will always appear before one" statement. and it makes perfect snese! that's very encouraging! Thanks again and i will take your words to heart!