Im a 23 year old, African-American, federally employed virgin lady. I know God Good created men, and I know that there are good men in our world, but Y don't I have one? I mean my goodness.. it's hard to find A man, let alont a good one. Y is it difficult to find a man, BLK/WHT or OTHER. I would like to fall in love with someone. it's looking rough though. LOL! I'm not looking for a relationship... but i am looking for someone to converse with.. just a companion that can blossom. I was expecting 2 be close 2 marriage. but Im AFAR OFF! i'm not even "talking" to a guy. It seems VIRGIN makes men back up. Whats wrong with honoring the Lord with my body and not defiling it? What's wrong with abstaining from sex? I know nothing is wrong with it, but it's just hard to maintain when you're trying to do something and the man who seems perfect is not going along with you. I dont plan 2b a virgin 4evr, I would like to get married and share my precious gift with someone special but by the looks of it, I was born a vigin, and i'll die one! LOL. A few women i worked with told me that whoever I date/marry will want me 2go get some experience and already know what 2do and how 2 bring pleasure to him. But my philosophy is this: If I only “know” (biblical sense) one man he can teach me how 2 satisfy him, how 2 pleasure him - he'll be able to teach me literally 101 what to do, how to do it, where and whatever else.. he'll know that i'm his - his alone. He'll never worry about what I think about him being better or worse than anyone I've had previously.. He'll be the only one! He'll be the biggest in my book. He'll be the best i've ever had, have the longest stamina. he'll feel great at the end knowing that HIS woman was made, formed and fashioned for him alone. He'll never have those insecurities that some men have when they marry women who have "been to the tree." Never have 2 worry about the competition because he'll always be my winner! I'm not ashamed of being a virgin, i'm extremly proud of it. i dont feel like i'm missing anything... but I'm just ready to share my gift with my King - whoever he may b. Any advice?