the good looking women literally have men throwing themselves at them, They never have to be lonely, I know most of the guys are thirsty perverts, but you actually have a choice, you will always have conversation, when your feeling bored their will always be a guy some where for you to talk to. All you have to do is sit back, and let them entertain you, sure you will have a lot of dumb guys trying to talk to you on many occasions, but at least your not lonely. Ladies you have the power, you have the guys wrapped around your fingers, they're under your command.
But most of they guys who are throwing themselves at you are ignorant, cause most are only thinking with their penis, they're really confident in approaching you, they believe that they can talk you into bed, by using the thing they call spitting game, and ladies the scary thing about spitting game these days, is that it doesn't have to be in a slick way, it can be regular talk that will make you think they're the nicest man in the world, but the whole time that will be apart of their plan. They will tell you everything you wanna hear, and pretend to be everything your looking for in a man. If a guy approaches you that shows he's confident, but most guys who approach you with confidence are not approaching you for a long term commitment, they're approaching you because they feel confident enough to get you into the bed.

But ladies did you know that the man who is not approaching you is probably the one who wants to commit the most?, but the reason he's not approaching you is because he has so much pride, he sees all the thirsty guys who approach you, and he don't wanna be seen as just another thirsty guy chasing a girl. he feels that if it's all meant to be then it all will happen naturally. he likes you, he thinks your very attractive, But he wants to stand out, he don't wanna be another guy throwing himself at you. He figures that you will notice him cause he's different, he feels that as a man, he deserves to get approached just as much as you do, he feels that those guys who are approaching you are putting you on a high pedestal, to where your so high up, your looking down on all the guys as nothing, he feels that your very comfortable on that high pedestal, but he wants to know that you can come back down, he wants to see you come back down, the only way he will know your not comfortable on that pedestal, is if you talk to him directly on your own. he wants to know if their is some humbleness inside of you, he can't see humbleness inside of you when you appear to be sitting comfortable on a high pedestal, but he don't wanna be in that category of another thirsty man, chasing a beautiful girl. he feels like your getting to much attention, he wants to stand out, He believes in the saying: "if she wants me, then she will approach me."

(Im gonna change this around a little bit, so you can understand me a little more.)

Im sure most of yall girls have been in a situation where
You see all these girls all over this one good looking popular dude, they all want him, they all drool over him, and put him at this level of a godly type person. But when you see all of that, their's always that one girl who is different, she is not like those other girls, she's not giving him attention, she says: "im not gonna get all over him like the rest of the girls, if he wants me, he's gonna have to talk to me on his own",
that's the girl with some pride, and she is the *smart girl*. But all the girls who are chasing this man, and going crazy over him, are the girls with no pride, therefore they are the *stupid girls*
Now the smart girl really wants this man, she wants him bad, because she's attracted to him physically, but by the way he's being treated by the other girls, it's making him appear to be conceited, or being put on a high pedestal, so he doesn't look humble to her, even if he knows he is in heart, he's gonna have to prove it to this smart girl by initiating conversation.
Now if this guy is the real deal, and he wants something real, He will start to notice that girl who is not giving him all of that attention, and approach her. he will start to see that girl as a challenge, he will start to know that that girl wants more than just his looks, he will know that the girls who are all over him are just over him because he looks good, But in some situations he can't make himself approach that other girl, because he thinks that since she's not approaching him, then she must not be into him, while the whole time she wants him more than the other girls, but just not sure if he's humble.

(But good men beware!) she could only want him physically,
Here's an example: The guy finally approaches her, she finds out he's humble, and a real cool guy, she's quick to open her legs to this guy, and in those situations their are only 2 reasons for that to happen, the 1st reason, is if she really wants something more than physical, but this man was only pretending to be humble, and she let this man play her by his little innocent humble act, or the 2nd reason is if she just wanted to have him sexually herself, in that case neither 1 of them played each other they just both felt a physical attraction only. And some people will even say that the woman played him, but that can never be true because a woman can not play a man, if she's giving her precious goods to someone who doesn't love her, then she will always be playing her self.

This is a great way for you people to know who has a deep mentality, and who has a shallow mentality.
Both a person with a deep mentality, and a person with a shallow mentality already know that a very good looking person is getting a lot of attention, weather they're around them while they're getting it, or not. but the difference is that, the person with that deep mentality is not ignorant, cause they understand that they're gonna look dumb by continuing to give these people unneeded attention, but the person with the shallow mentality is ignorant, because they don't think they look dumb by giving these people all of this unneeded attention, and they're even more ignorant, because the main reason they're approaching them is so they can see if they can get them in bed in the future.

the ones with the deep mentality understand that they don't need to give these people extra attention, even when they're not around them while they're getting a lot of attention already, but what they don't know is that, that very good looking person may actually be the most humble person in the world, but that person with the deep mentality may refuse to approach them in any situation because of the pride thing, and because society has made them believe that most people are shallow,
And because their's some self conscious issues, for example they may not feel that they're good enough for them physically, and also may not be in a good financial situation in their lives, and because of that they fear they don't have a chance. they feel that way because society has made them feel that way, and they can't tell just by looking at someone, that they're humble, so they rather not take a chance.
A person shouldn't have to worry about how they look physically, or how they're doing finically in order to approach a person, but none of that would be a problem, if everything happened naturally. Like for example if the person they're afraid to approach would start the convo. Or if the convo came up in a unique way, that didn't involve neither one approaching each other with a conversation being the main goal.
But remember this, the ones who have it all financially, and who feel really good about themselves physically are more likely the ones who are boldly approaching, but most are not approaching you because they want a commitment, they just feel real confident in themselves, and their status to where they can get you sexually. Now their are a rare few who actually have a lot going for them, who will approach you, and who are really ready to commit, but in this ignorant society that chance is like 1 out of 10.

(Lets talk about the difference between a chat site and reality)

On a chat site a person with pride, is a little bit more open to testing a person out, even when that person is very good looking, or appear to be getting a lot of attention,
Because you can't judge a book by it's cover, and it's good to see what that person is about by taking a chance to get to know them, and it's easier for them to do it on a chat site, because if the person they're approaching seems like they don't want to chat with them, it won't feel as awkward as it would feel in real life.
But what they're looking for is how the conversation is gonna go,
If the conversation is dry and dead coming from the good looking person their approaching, then the person with pride usually suspects that they seen their pics, but didn't like what they seen. In reality they don't wanna take that chance, because they fear that person may be very shallow, and don't want them talking to them, and it's gonna feel extra awkward, when that person is responding to them in a very dry way, when it's right in their face.

I don't want you to think that all men who don't approach women are all great guys,
Just because they're not approaching women does not mean they're not ignorant and thirsty for sex.
You got a lot of shy men, who are listening to the ignorance that their friends are feeding to them, and also the media, and society in general, but just to scared to approach women for what ever reasons they may have. Some of them have the mentality of a confident/ignorant man but they don't have the securities within themselves to expose it to women, what I mean by that is, they basically have a lot of insecurities that are brought on by society's rules, an example of that is society's view on penis size. To many women in our society have made it clear that size matters, all of that has allowed a lot of would be confident (both good, and bad type of men) to 2nd guess their approach towards a woman, cause they may not have the penis size that most women desire. Those women are allowing insecure men to basically throw in the towel, and wait for a women who will love them for them and accept whatever flaws they may have, that sounds like a really good thing for a man to do, but it's not by option, because if women wasn't concerned about penis size, and other issues in life like them having good paying jobs etc., then those type of men wouldn't have a reason to feel insecure anymore, and that would allow the good type of men, and sadly the bad as well, to finally start being confident and approach women with no worries.

90% of the men who confidently approach women are confident with their status in life, with #1 being penis size.
The women have made penis size such a big deal in society, that most of the men who approach women are the ones who are happy with their penis size. So if you think about it, the women in society might be the main reason that most men approach them with sex being their main goal. Society has basically made everything a concern, you have to have money, you have to have a big penis etc., all guys are not going to have all, or even some of those things, so it's like the odds are against them. So basically most of the men who are coming at you are the men who have all, or some of those things, and on rare occasions a man who doesn't have one, or all of those things actually builds up enough courage to approach you, but he shouldn't have to build up courage just to approach you, if the only thing he needed is a good heart, but most women are not buying that. Most of the men who approach you confidently are happy about something that society has made them feel happy about, and most who are not approaching you, are just wishing society wasn't like this.

Most men these days, are looking for females who are sex freaks, cause more, and more females are making it clear that they are freaks. Men are acting according to how society is acting, the more women who are labeling themselves as freaks in society then the more men who will always think with their penis, and approach every woman with the hopes that she might be a freak.

Women I think that their a a lot of things that you can look in the mirror and change in your self that can help this situation, but im going to leave you with this.

If your a woman, and he's approaching you boldly, then that means he's approaching a lot of other women boldly, that's the sign of a player, Use your head women. And for the men if she's approaching boldly then she's approaching a lot of other men boldly, and she probably trying to be a female player. So guys watch out for all that flirting some of them females be doing, and women watch that flirting from the guys.

Jason lamorris rivers Copyright ©2010.